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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/16/2018 1:47 pm

Note to self: No matter how tempted do not . . . repeat do not ask marshamaybe about "curing" the lesbian thing for her. Also, no rentabeds.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/16/2018 1:59 pm

The honest answer? It's the hypocrisy of men. Plain and simple LOL

I'd never try to convince a lesbian that she'd switch teams if she had sex with me, But!!

I think it stems from the hypocrisy that I do share with a lot of men. I think two women together are sexy, but can't get my head around what one guy sees in another.

GIANT DISCLAIMER BEFORE THE FIREBOMBS. Not knocking any lifestyle. It's just not my thing. I don't care what any two, or more adults do in their own lives.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/16/2018 2:01 pm

    Quoting  :

Well, yeah, but . . . I'm available

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


RavenGB 63M
1430 posts
10/16/2018 2:02 pm

The simple answer is because they are idiots.
I doubt any heterosexual man could be "tempted" by gay sex just as I suspect a gay person is unlikely to fancy a quick fling with a heterosexual. There are people who are on a spectrum of bisexuality, of course. It is always a surprise to learn how some people on this site behave, but there's a world of difference between swinger sex and a hook-up - the first requires respect.


Nimothy777 67M

10/16/2018 2:25 pm

I think it is a good question. Something I have never thought about. But, I would have to say, "Yes." If I asked a lesbian to have sex with me, then she should be able to take a strap on and put it in my ass.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/16/2018 2:41 pm

    Quoting  :

Just a follow up, you seem like a reasonable person, and wasn't expecting a firebomb from you.

Was thinking more about others who might have misinterpreted my response. LOL

Carry on.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


hotdreamer1000 64M
12409 posts
11/22/2018 7:33 am

I came to this late, but it's a fascinating question. I have been approached by gay men a few times, and although my outward response has always been to say polite words to the effect of "it's nice that you find me attractive, but I'm afraid I can not reciprocate," my inward response has varied considerably.

I think it depends a lot on how the approach is made. If it is simply on the basis that they are attracted and would I be interested, then that is fine. One time I remember even being vaguely tempted, although I realised that if it came to the reality I really wouldn't have liked it. ( I found something sexy about him, perhaps in the same way that a young David Bowie seems somehow androgynously sexy.)

But if there is anything about any approach which feels threatening, or if there is any sort of suggestion that I "don't know what I am missing," then I do begin to find such an approach unpleasant. It would be whoever made it, even if it was from a straight woman. My inward reaction has been quite visceral, and I can see how this could lead to the feeling which some men express as homophobia, or as outrage at you for having suggested it. Very few people cope well with feeling threatened, and because they lack self awareness and self-esteem, some men may feel your question threatens their viewpoint somehow.

One problem I do have with this whole subject though, is that I do not like the feeling of having something stuck up my arse! Neither do I like the idea of sticking my cock up someone else's, whether male or female. I haven't tried it, and I am not planning to, so perhaps I am biased!

Anyway I think the point is that sex is not just all about the physical feeling. If a beautiful woman had a cock I am perfectly sure I could enjoy sucking it just as much as anyone. I know I can also get turned on by the idea of being a woman and being fucked. But only if I don't think too hard about the man doing the fucking. This is because it is mainly the mental images and thoughts of sex which turn me on. And my knowledge of feelings of the other person involved.

To follow on with your fantasy question, if a lesbian wanted sex with me, I might like it if she was really into me, but of she just couldn't find her dildo, I might not like the idea so much. To ask for sex with someone who says they are not into you, on the basis that being with you might somehow change their mind, is not only stupid, but it is also offensive, because it implies they do not know their own mind. Maybe some people don't, of course. Maybe it is those kind of people who assume others also are easily led.

I think your counter question is perfectly reasonable. If I misguidedly propositioned you on the basis that you might like it, and you asked me if I would take a gay man up the arse, I guess would say "ahh, yes, fair enough, good point. No, I wouldn't be into that." It's hard to imagine why anyone would be angry with you for asking. I can only suggest that being confronted with logic can be scary for people with entrenched ideas.


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