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Aging Gracefully On Here  

Platosgames 102M
2244 posts
9/17/2018 1:54 pm
Aging Gracefully On Here


I reactivated my account a few months ago. Re did my profile,added some recent pics, all from this summer. Did the search thing, sent out some messages to those around me that seemed interesting. I've been here off and on before, so I settled in for the wait. What was funny, was after a week or so I got a email, that stated, "I've turned you in for being a bot. Your pictures don't match your stated age. "

BIG NOTE HERE. At the time, I did have my correct age listed.

I replied back with, what are you talking about? No reply. Never heard anything from Customer Service, so figured it was a fluke. Then about a month ago, I get two more. Both calling me a fake, a bot. One stated they could tell from my message that I wasn't real. LOL For anyone who has read one of my blog posts, it's pretty obvious, I'm not a man of a few words.

So I decided to play. I have been rethinking what it is I'm looking for anyway, so figured I really didn't care at this point if anyone could find me in a search. So I changed my age to 96. Seemed like a good age. And I'm thinking, cool, this will put me out of the search range. I can have some time to just get my head around what I want, and not have to put up a ....Not looking at this time... banner on my profile.

I promised at the time I would do a follow up post about how changing my age to 96 would affect my time here. Pretty much forgot about it, but since someone reminded me.."rolls eyes", you know who you are. I decided it was time.

Things did not go as I planned. haha. I actually had more women and couples trying to IM me. Had quite a few messages, wanting to know how old I really was. My favorite, and she'll remain nameless in case she reads this, though I've never seen her on the blog, was something like.

Wow, you look really good for your age. What's your secret. I'd like to know more about you. yada yada......I think she's joking of course, so I respond back with something about the fountain of youth, that I stopped aging years ago. Then at the end, told her my real age. She responds back with, oh, well you shouldn't lie on your profile, that wasn't very nice.

I didn't even have the heart to reply back.

So I'm thinking some people don't really use the age parameter in their search. Some really don't care. Hell maybe some just really like the idea of the old geezer, who's about to kick the bucket and wonder if i have any money to leave.

Things it didn't change.

I still get messages, flirts and IM's from those lovely ladies in their 20's, who think I am hot, want me to move them down to Texas, and promise, "Just real woman, not game playing".

Still didn't help me decide what the hell I want. Or help me find someone that interests me that isn't 1700 miles away. Even in my new age bracket.

Was wondering though, do you put a specific age bracket on your preferences? Do you follow it no matter what? Have you broken it either way, older or younger?

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 1:59 pm

I've broken my lower age parameter twice. And pretty much regretted it both times.

With the way my new thought process is going, I'm thinking my age parameter would be no more than 10 years on either side of me.

Actually now days, age doesn't seem to be the biggest obstacle. It's that damn distance parameter I complained about in a earlier post.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


bitchkitty2017 71F

9/17/2018 2:17 pm

awww sweetheart that is so sad but you know if someone goes on your profile and sees the age you have on there and comments about things like " lying " they obviously don't know enough to see its a fun thing and not a serious thing you do..Ass holes are on here every minute and they are not worth a second thought..I know you are real we have had some good conversations and you are probably more real than anyone on here ..you are kind considerate and a real gentleman..I admire any man that is diverse as you are...Hon distance is a big factor cause If it wasn't I be all over you like white on rice, believe that !


yesmamallthetime 56F  
11278 posts
9/17/2018 2:31 pm

I agree with bitchkitty. Distance is a big factor. Otherwise a lot of us female bloggers would be on you like white on rice. LoL. I'm going to have to use that in a poem. Thank you for that phrase bitchkitty. ☺️.

My usual parameters are 13 years older or younger. I have gone younger a few times. I was curious about stamina. Which to tell you the truth can be found in older men along with affection between intervals. Lol I had a very persistent 32 year old firefighter after me. I wish he were older we could have had a great time as he is the biggest flirt ..which is very flattering. Haha.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 2:35 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    awww sweetheart that is so sad but you know if someone goes on your profile and sees the age you have on there and comments about things like " lying " they obviously don't know enough to see its a fun thing and not a serious thing you do..Ass holes are on here every minute and they are not worth a second thought..I know you are real we have had some good conversations and you are probably more real than anyone on here ..you are kind considerate and a real gentleman..I admire any man that is diverse as you are...Hon distance is a big factor cause If it wasn't I be all over you like white on rice, believe that !
Well thank you, those were kind words indeed. I really just try to be honest in life and on here. I never understand why some find that hard..well besides the cheaters. haha.

And thanks for the other compliment on the distance. That distance thing is kicking my ass right now.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Naughtypursuit 56F  
2766 posts
9/17/2018 2:44 pm

I have age parameters in my cupid preferences but generally I dont actively search, I tend to wait and see what comes my way and decide from there. Having said that I have gone 20 years older ( when I was 30) and within last few years 15 years younger. There is a young man on here who is 30 who really intrigues me, we have chatted and texted for quite a while, I have not as yet taken the plunge. There has to be that personality click first and foremost.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
9/17/2018 2:45 pm

My search parameter is set for 10 younger and 5 older.
My profile only states an younger parameter.

I have been known to make exceptions because sometimes you just have to.

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 2:46 pm

    Quoting  :

Maybe we need to all pitch in and just get a jet on a time share.

Yeah, the younger thing just doesn't meet what I'm looking for these days..that much I know. Just had a second date week before last with someone I met offline. She's great, but turns out she's 34..and want's to start a family. I'm a little past that age. LOL.

I'm big on honesty. I'm honest, and it's a big deal that others are honest with me. Just hard to build some trust with anyone you catch lying to you.

Hell, I'll be 97 in March

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
9/17/2018 2:48 pm

I do have an age brackett. Obviously he can’t be older than me. I have never been with a man older than me since my 20’s. Just worked that way but now, well, ahhh, hmmm........most are dead anyway.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 2:53 pm

    Quoting yesmamallthetime:
    I agree with bitchkitty. Distance is a big factor. Otherwise a lot of us female bloggers would be on you like white on rice. LoL. I'm going to have to use that in a poem. Thank you for that phrase bitchkitty. ☺️.

    My usual parameters are 13 years older or younger. I have gone younger a few times. I was curious about stamina. Which to tell you the truth can be found in older men along with affection between intervals. Lol I had a very persistent 32 year old firefighter after me. I wish he were older we could have had a great time as he is the biggest flirt ..which is very flattering. Haha.
I'll be looking for your next poem.. you know a lot of stuff rhymes with rice.

I'm sure it's different with men, just like everything. Hell look how much Viagra they sell. But I just don't see a difference in myself. And to be blunt, found women closer to my age that could run circles around a couple of younger ones I dated.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


dub11012 54M

9/17/2018 3:00 pm

I don't have a set age range, but am generally attracted to people who are fit (for whatever their age), hwp and comfortable in their own skin. Confidence goes a long way, and I'm old enough, now to understand how the body (and its sexual responses) change over the years, sometimes in wonderfully surprising ways, sometimes . . . less so!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:03 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, in my head I'm still in my 30s. I stay in pretty good shape, can work circles around some of workers who are in there 20s. hahaha. But dating, relationships is a different animal. I want someone who can relate to what I'm saying. Talk about things and they're not like...did he play with Justin Bieber?

Interesting comment on the distance part. Sort of makes my muddy water even less clear. Thanks.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:24 pm

    Quoting Naughtypursuit:
    I have age parameters in my cupid preferences but generally I dont actively search, I tend to wait and see what comes my way and decide from there. Having said that I have gone 20 years older ( when I was 30) and within last few years 15 years younger. There is a young man on here who is 30 who really intrigues me, we have chatted and texted for quite a while, I have not as yet taken the plunge. There has to be that personality click first and foremost.
Yeah,, that's a big age gap.. But I think people should do what theyre comfortable with. it's just not for me.

That said, I have met some women my age that had the maturity of someone in their 20's. haha.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:36 pm

    Quoting superbjversion2:
    My search parameter is set for 10 younger and 5 older.
    My profile only states an younger parameter.

    I have been known to make exceptions because sometimes you just have to.
I had that same philosophy for quite a while. Lately I've been changing thought patterns on a lot of stuff. Age was just one of them. I'm thinking the age thing for me is pretty locked down..

But you go get em tiger!!!

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:40 pm

    Quoting  :

I absolutely hate ...but I'd put up with Eminem if it involved watching you strip. Just saying....

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
9/17/2018 3:42 pm

I think distance is a big factor and bigger than age. I tend to prefer women within about 10 years either way. However there are some about 15 younger here that might be interesting if they were available.

I got together with a woman from here who was 20 years younger. She contacted me after I looked at her profile we talked and she wanted to meet. We both knew it was just going to be a physical one time thing. It was but it was fun.

The song "Glory Day's" just came on - oddly appropriate.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:42 pm

    Quoting positively4you:
    I do have an age brackett. Obviously he can’t be older than me. I have never been with a man older than me since my 20’s. Just worked that way but now, well, ahhh, hmmm........most are dead anyway.
LOL...and the winner of the best response goes to......positively4you. That was great.

You just need to find you some strapping young buck and teach him what life is all about.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:50 pm

    Quoting dub11012:
    I don't have a set age range, but am generally attracted to people who are fit (for whatever their age), hwp and comfortable in their own skin. Confidence goes a long way, and I'm old enough, now to understand how the body (and its sexual responses) change over the years, sometimes in wonderfully surprising ways, sometimes . . . less so!
Yeah, age seems to be one of those things that hits us all a little differently. I'm in better shape now then when I was in my 30's.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 3:58 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    I think distance is a big factor and bigger than age. I tend to prefer women within about 10 years either way. However there are some about 15 younger here that might be interesting if they were available.

    I got together with a woman from here who was 20 years younger. She contacted me after I looked at her profile we talked and she wanted to meet. We both knew it was just going to be a physical one time thing. It was but it was fun.

    The song "Glory Day's" just came on - oddly appropriate.
I can't argue your first point in the slightest. I had a S-LTR with a lady on here, that was a lot younger than me. Long distance too...for a time. Not sure which part if either actually sabotaged the relationship.

I could see if it's just physical, age not really being a big deal. I was there for about 13 years.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
9/17/2018 4:02 pm

My age range goes down to around 50 and someone close to that age, I usually just cringe when they contact me. I also don't want to go over about 67 or 68. But in your case, I'm may have to re-think that! You look very good for your age And we're less than 1700 miles apart. Hmmm....

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 4:06 pm

    Quoting  :

haha, that's actually something I hadn't thought about. I have seen some on here over 100. Wonder if it's just a flip to the three digits that screwed it up. It is eroticsouls.com , if there's a bug, they'll find it.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
9/17/2018 4:06 pm

It just amazes me what people will send you in the mail. And yes you look younger than you are which is a good thing. I get that all the time, and you know age is something that I have on my profile as I don't need any little boys as I already raised two myself. They have to be at least 30 or older and none over 60 as I got that too..

I hope you have a great week..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 4:10 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    My age range goes down to around 50 and someone close to that age, I usually just cringe when they contact me. I also don't want to go over about 67 or 68. But in your case, I'm may have to re-think that! You look very good for your age And we're less than 1700 miles apart. Hmmm....
See that sounds reasonable on the age gap. Thanks for the compliment. It's the fountain of youth water, good diet, plenty of exercise..and the fact that eroticsouls.com lets me just make it up as I go along. I might just turn it back on my birthday and stay at 96.

Then maybe some of you fine ladies, could hurry up and catch up with me.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 4:31 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    It just amazes me what people will send you in the mail. And yes you look younger than you are which is a good thing. I get that all the time, and you know age is something that I have on my profile as I don't need any little boys as I already raised two myself. They have to be at least 30 or older and none over 60 as I got that too..

    I hope you have a great week..
Well thanks, but not a lot of people on the site. Think only one on the blogs actually knows my real age. LOL. Maybe, I'm 26 and just look horrible for my age.

By the way, like your new profile pic.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 4:38 pm

    Quoting  :

See here we go again with the distance thing. I've been all over the distance topic lately. On here and in my head. Having to give it a lot of thought, but at least my age parameters aren't having to be questioned.

I agree a lot with your last few lines. If it's easy, just fits like a glove. Then no reason age should be a factor. And I've said the same thing to myself before. Sometimes we look so hard, we miss the things right in front of our face.

Great response, thanks.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


tresennui 69F  
2482 posts
9/17/2018 4:39 pm

Kinda remember commenting about a profile age in the 90s before...you? When I first joined the site and was just looking for fun (hopefully, more than a fuck buddy can be fun too) I didn’t care about age. My kids are 40ish. Sorta creepy to me to be screwing around with someone around their age. And a man in his twenties??? I have an 18 year old grandson.

I can see why your fake age garners attention. It makes it seem like you have a sense of humor. You do not take this too seriously.

Distance is a big criteria for me, especially since I am not looking for someone to hook up with once or twice and not plan to see very often.

Tresennui
Succumbing to Curiosity...read me at tresennui


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 5:01 pm

    Quoting tresennui:
    Kinda remember commenting about a profile age in the 90s before...you? When I first joined the site and was just looking for fun (hopefully, more than a fuck buddy can be fun too) I didn’t care about age. My kids are 40ish. Sorta creepy to me to be screwing around with someone around their age. And a man in his twenties??? I have an 18 year old grandson.

    I can see why your fake age garners attention. It makes it seem like you have a sense of humor. You do not take this too seriously.

    Distance is a big criteria for me, especially since I am not looking for someone to hook up with once or twice and not plan to see very often.
Might have been me..

I'm with you on the age thing. Yeah I'm a guy, we can all be horn dogs at times. But when they even get close to my kids ages, I'm just like..ummm no.

I try not to take myself too seriously on here or in life. Maybe that's what keeps me young.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
9/17/2018 5:07 pm

This post made me really snicker. I am one of the few who wants to know who the person is, inside and out, how they tick, what makes them laugh,what in life is serious, what have we in common to talk about or explore in many venues so I very rarely look at age unless the initial communication is poor in structure or grammar or just plain tacky. Those "chats" and emails know no age bracket. Si maybe i need to become 101 LOL and still hot air balloon all the way to Texas

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Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 5:53 pm

    Quoting pocogato12:
    This post made me really snicker. I am one of the few who wants to know who the person is, inside and out, how they tick, what makes them laugh,what in life is serious, what have we in common to talk about or explore in many venues so I very rarely look at age unless the initial communication is poor in structure or grammar or just plain tacky. Those "chats" and emails know no age bracket. Si maybe i need to become 101 LOL and still hot air balloon all the way to Texas
Just from reading your posts..I could say that doesn't surprise me in the least. You're a well grounded lady, who I would assume, just knows what she wants. And doesn't accept anything less.

I'll be waiting on the ballon in the back yard.. Give me a heads up when you get close. I'll make us some bbq

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 6:05 pm

    Quoting  :

See, while I set my age range for 10 either way, I've tended to end up within 5 or so in the past few years. So I don't think its all that narrow .

The distance thing is still being measured in my head. And I'm getting screamed at by both sides of my argument. haha.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 6:07 pm

Have you noticed that a good number of us...me included, tend to be more open towards a larger age gap lower than we are higher. I think when I first joined I used a formula of 1/2 my age plus 7. But didn't go more than 7 years above my age.

Interesting.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 6:47 pm

    Quoting  :

Ok...well you know you're gonna have to explain that one...LOL What physical abilities would you be needing there ? haha

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
9/17/2018 7:27 pm

    Quoting  :

I was wondering if that's what you were talking about. Maybe I'm different, but I have more control now then when I was in my twenties or thirties. It's a lot easier for me to time it to match where my partner is. And I'm a hell of a lot better figuring out where she is , than I was at 20 . hahaha.. Not sure I even noticed at that age.

The rest of it makes perfect sense. I was in a relationship with a lady like that. If she got going, multiple orgasms. We'd just keep going till she stopped. But like you..if she didn't get there while she was "in the red". We might as well stop and go grab something to eat. She basically needed to start over.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


twood1600 59M

10/6/2018 2:01 pm

I have always had a thing for mature much more mature I lost my virginity to a gal almost 60 years my senior so 70 plus still gives me a hardon She was wonderful


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/7/2018 6:21 am

    Quoting twood1600:
    I have always had a thing for mature much more mature I lost my virginity to a gal almost 60 years my senior so 70 plus still gives me a hardon She was wonderful
Well that's just a big ole age difference there. I guess it's right, to some age is just a number.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/9/2018 3:23 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, I set it at 96 so it would be pretty obvious it wasn't my real age. LOL

You're lucky. My older daughter made me a grandpa when i was in my late 40's. Hated the thought of anyone calling me grandpa. Luckily one of my son's came up with Pappy. I can live with that, and now there's 5 of them calling me pappy.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/11/2018 12:51 pm

    Quoting  :

I've met some people in their 80s that still looked pretty good. But 96? Come on , I made it as obvious as I could. LOL

Yeah, I think 10 years either way will be my choice, once I'm done taking a break from looking.

Thanks for posting.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


champ3702 54M

10/12/2018 10:17 pm

I agree man I hate getting older


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/13/2018 12:13 am

    Quoting champ3702:
    I agree man I hate getting older
I met a guy this week that's like my new "hero" Dude is 89 years old. Looks like he's maybe 70. Still works. Was climbing a ladder on one of the jobsites. Has a grip like a vise. hahaha

I won't go quietly into the night. I'll fight it the whole way.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


qyxx 67F
3348 posts
10/14/2018 6:50 pm

I do not actively search. I would love to chat and text with someone, perhaps even more. But most of the men on here (I can't get into the young ones) are into playtime right away and I am not there. Also distance is a huge factor for me as well

Q.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
10/15/2018 6:07 am

    Quoting qyxx:
    I do not actively search. I would love to chat and text with someone, perhaps even more. But most of the men on here (I can't get into the young ones) are into playtime right away and I am not there. Also distance is a huge factor for me as well
I'm pretty much the same these days. Not looking at all at the moment.

But yeah the distance thing really kills me.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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