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Private messages
Posted:Jul 26, 2008 6:20 pm
Last Updated:Jul 15, 2018 8:23 pm
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I've set this post up to allow anyone to leave me a private message. This seems to work pretty well for when you or I cannot read email. Keep the comments coming and thanks.

Prof
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Links to stories updated July 2018
Posted:Nov 14, 2010 7:00 am
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2018 1:35 pm
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The handful of stories I've written are buried throughout my blog. I thought I would provide a pathway that was a bit easier to follow to find them. Click on the comments to find links to the stories.

I hope you enjoy.

Prof
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Profile
Posted:Jun 18, 2010 7:07 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 2018 4:30 am
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For those of you standard members who might not have regular access to profiles, I thought I'd post mine here. You can use the private message post just below in my blog to contact me.
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Chatus Interuptus
Posted:Jul 17, 2018 4:46 am
Last Updated:Jul 17, 2018 6:45 am
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First preplanned chat with someone new. Sort of a virtual date. Ready to be smooth and funny and enticing. Gotten a couple of LOLs right off the bat. Things are looking good.

And the dog I'm sitting starts barfing

Grass balls.

Over and over.

Around the house.

Used a mop to clean up.

Could have used a pitchfork, there was so much.
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It comes in spurts...
Posted:Jul 16, 2018 7:15 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2018 1:44 pm
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I can go many days without anyone approaching me in IM for a chat. I'm often the first to reach out. However now and then I'll experience a spurt of activity. At one point over the weekend I had five members interested in chatting. Not sure I can type that fast, though all of the conversations allowed for two handing typing.
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I could be take out too...
Posted:Jul 15, 2018 5:22 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2018 4:22 am
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I seem to be getting a lot of views from China these days. Have the tariffs gotten so bad I'm affordable?
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Recruiting tactics
Posted:Jul 14, 2018 5:39 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2018 4:23 am
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It sounds so calculating and commercial but recruiting tactics are what I've decided I'm using here. The male to female ratio motivates it. I have to reach out to a lot of women and couples to elicit even a few responses. And obviously only a select few of those responses have to potential to grow further.

I endeavor to be engaging and frank yet respectful. I'm up front about my married status in my profile and initial contacts. I don't email blast everyone on the site. I have standards. But I think that women and couples have so many options that a lone guy like myself needs to find a way to get many to take a peek at me.

Either I'm getting better at this or the market here is changing because I've gotten some fun and exciting responses this summer. I'm certainly not a "player" but it is thrilling and satisfying to provoke some interest and desire.
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Dancing vertically and horizontally
Posted:Jul 13, 2018 5:21 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 8:20 pm
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I'm going to a wedding later today. As I blogged about a couple of days ago that often makes me horny. Part of the appeal is the dancing. I enjoy dancing and rarely get to. Qualitatively think, middle aged white guy. But I like the energy of fast dancing and the intimacy of slow dancing. When get a bit of practice I'm okay at swing. I like the potential of where dancing can lead. That is not likely to happen at this wedding for a variety of reasons but still fun to imagine.
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Do you like to kiss?
Posted:Jul 12, 2018 12:14 pm
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 5:28 am
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I find the occasional profile that wants limited or no kissing. I can't imagine that. How can you not kiss? Making out like a (skilled) teen was what pushed over the edge in straying. All five senses so deeply involved. My heart just races.
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Fancy is as fancy does...
Posted:Jul 12, 2018 4:57 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 5:28 am
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I was reminded yesterday of the UK expression of fancying someone. For some people that just says it right. I want to message these women saying I fancy you. I've taken a fancy to you. Fancy a shag? Fancy pants, can I get you out of them?
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Do you kiss and tell?
Posted:Jul 11, 2018 2:35 pm
Last Updated:Jul 13, 2018 6:30 am
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Or in my case do I chat and tell? When staring to hit it off with someone from the site reluctant to share who they are. I guess worried about competition. It is so difficult for a lone guy to attract attention, I don't want anyone pulling focus from a woman or couple in whom interested.
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Do weddings make you horny?
Posted:Jul 11, 2018 5:04 am
Last Updated:Jul 16, 2018 1:45 pm
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I know a lot of husbands claim that their wedding eventually had the opposite affect on their significant others. But does attending a wedding get your juices flowing. It does for me, though with little chance to act upon it. I invariably imagine during the service how the newlyweds are going to celebrate that night. I look around the reception and wonder who is meeting up and hooking up. I watch couples dance and try to discern who are drifting toward doing it.
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Finally met the stranger in the dark
Posted:Jul 10, 2018 3:26 am
Last Updated:Jul 14, 2018 5:30 am
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Blog post 1000, here we go. I notice a lot of members stopping by my blog and/or viewing my profile over and over. I know about the rollover thing bumping up profile views. But some names appear several times a week and have for a long time.

If you keep coming back but haven't replied to a post or sent a message, please do so. I'd love to hear what motivates you.
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