I'm hoping to find a couple who is open enough to welcome a handsome, refined, warm, honest and sensuous man into their bed. People who seek no-holds-barred, safe, and ridiculously satisfying sexual encounters. I'm a completely sane, Irish/Italian 45 year old man, 6'2", 180 lbs. I'm successful - in the arts - healthy,with no diseases. I don't have a ripped gym bod, but I exercise regularly, swim, and am lean and long. Freckles, fair skin, blue eyes, curly brown hair, strong chest. Ivy educated, friendly, funny, with a pronounced rakish edge, and a welcoming smile. I'm an unabashed, and uninhibited, sensualist who loves the smells and tastes of warm ripe skin, and tangled naked bodies. I've been in several long term relationships, and I'm divorced - I have actually not been very promiscuous throughout my life. I don't really believe in "straight" or "gay" labels for myself: while 98% of my sex life has been with women, I'm not going to claim "straight", because it was extremely liberating and revelatory to have discovered (15 years ago) that I could also enjoy making love to another man. And low and behold, it didn't change me one bit! So, while I'm not really interested in pursuing relationships with men, bisexuality is something that doesn't freak me out; it feels honest and - let's face it- it only opens doors for partners and expanded pleasure. I'd like to meet similarly at-peace people. I feel that bisexual lovemaking would be the most natural progression in a true 3 way sexual relationship. I love discovering what drives my lovers wild. And then doing it again and again... I'm funny, relaxed, comfortable in my skin. I'm happy. And I'm looking for REAL people to experience together what we've both sought for so long, without the constraints of prejudice or pressure. Casual, and open; one time, or ongoing. I seek people who are likewise comfortable with themselves, generally positive, confident, honest and at ease in various situations, and with any luck, smart and passionate about their lives. I'm generally drawn to somewhat more mature friends...go figure. While I'll admit that in the past I have not been averse to the occasional late night phone sex session, and of course it's always a turn on to see pics of attractive naked people, I'm really not interested in a lot of email, phone and photo teasing: We all know that what we're looking for is in fact extremely rare and elusive, and I think that any promise of compatible partners deserves a meeting at the very least. I will absolutely send pics if you do, and you should get a response if you're polite, and informative - clever and enticing guarantees a response. Life's short (and getting shorter by the minute - I just turned 46!) Let's forget about rigid self-definitions, and pre-judgments. Let's instead seek a more intimate, and accepting knowledge of ourselves and our sexuality - and begin treating ourselves to more joy!

My Ideal Person I want honest, attractive, open and imaginative friends. Humor and brains would be extraordinary. A warm couple with an attractive bi man and a mischievous confident and game woman would be ideal.