When I'm at home alone, it's time to relax with good wine and a good book. I get along best with people who aren't afraid to call a spade a spade. I like my partners to be people I'd hang around with even if we weren't having sex. I've always been good at turning nothing into something great. Sexually, I'm a little rusty and looking for someone to help me get back in the game. I've reached the point where I'm free to do what I want, when I want, with who I want. It feels good. I look forward to whatever life brings. If you contact me I promise to send you home with a smile on your face. I'm not changing my life, I'm changing how I live it. Update: I am not looking for a relationship, just wanting some kind of NSA sexual fun....and to be totally honest, am realyy just interested in oral--giving. Is that asking too much?? BTW, I've started a new job recently and that is going to interfere with my usual free time for MAY. Also keep in mind I am a BBW...so if you don't like big girls, I am not the one for you.