Hi, I am a SWM looking for someone to explore all the varieties in life. I was married for 30 years and lost my wife after a long illness. Our relationship was good in many ways till she got sick but was pretty vanilla. I want to try all the different kinks out there. I don’t know what I will like for sure but I know what sounds good and want to find out. Here is a short list. I would like to join a couple, I am not Bi but have no problem with sharing a woman with another guy. I get really hot thinking about BDSM especially spanking. I like the idea of top or bottom. I am not into blood, or scat. Beyond that I will try anything else at least once. A group party sounds like a blast and is something I always wanted to do but my partner wasn’t game. I feel like I missed out on 12 years of opportunity while going through the ordeal with my late wife. I am ready to move on and want to find someone real that is seeking the same. I like the idea of being dominate and or dominated. So if you are of like mind, (experienced or not) let’s talk.

My Ideal Person Someone who is open to exploring sexuality in it’s many forms. As I stated there are many things I would like to try but have not had the opportunity. Well now I do. I am new to this and a bit gun shy after dealing with so many scams on other sites. This one comes recommended.
Looks and age are not a huge issue for me although I don’t like obese. BBW especially with curves (woman should be soft and curvy) are okay. Sexy is not a look but an attitude.
I would like a LTR at some point in the future but that is not my goal at the present. How ever a FWB with couples or singles sounds intriguing. So if you would like to explore please contact me.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
For a woman to take complete control. I would be bound and
blind folded and she could administer punishment, stimulation
and or sex preferably all of the above. The same as above but with the roles reversed. Play a board game where the game dictates the activities
as a couple or even better a group. Have sex in a semi public place. Have anal sex and or DP. Have a threesome or more were one person gets to dictate
to the others what activities to do.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not really

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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